Building Confidence 3 - Practical Ways

10 Practical Steps to Building Confidence

(10 Days Confidence Challenge)



  • Day 1: Write down all your fears (your doubts and failures).

  • Day 2: Drop the fears at Jesus' feet and take His peace. Make this your daily mantra, I hand over all to you, Jesus.

  • Day 3: Write down all the goodness of you that you can remember (gifts, talents, dreams, achievements, etc.).

  • Day 4: Meditate on all the goodness you listed out about yourself and make this confession: I accept a new life. I embrace my full potential, God's original plan for me, and all he has for me.

  • Day 5: With the help of the Holy Spirit, list people who will help you get back on track, list those who are not helping your journey and objectively decide what to do with them.

  • Day 6: Call at least one person you have been procrastinating to reach. Be specific about what you want and how it will add value to your life or fulfill your dreams. Say to yourself, I receive the favour of God and man.

  • Day 7: Meet one or more new persons in a group or class you dread, talk with them and get to know them.

  • Day 8: Post some of your pictures, It should be a mixture of full and portrait pictures, and say this on the post and also to yourself consistently. Today, I accept who God has made me to be.

  • Day 9: post a picture of you stepping out or taking steps - Say to yourself, I step into my full potential. The world needs my light. I am not afraid to shine, I shine to the glory of God.

  • Day 10: Record a 1-2 minute video to tell us your confidence story. (It does not need to be perfect).

Thank you for participating and engaging.

10 Days Confidence Challenge  by Oloruntobi Ojo


10 Days Confidence Challenge
by
Oloruntobi Ojo
April 2023

Thriving while Waiting    ...flourishing without borders
thrivingww@gmail.com
Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook

For more information and engagement, follow us on Instagram and Facebook @ThrivingWW

#flourishingwithiutborders #buildingconfidence #howtobuildconfidence #confidencebuilding #confidencequotes #howtobeabetterwoman #theconfidentwoman 


Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

How Worthy? - Part 3

Image
  The sound of a blaring horn in the front yard woke me up. It was 7:45 am, and I still lay cuddled up in my purple blanket; I slept for longer hours on days I wrapped myself in it so I always used it on Friday nights. I didn't work on Saturdays to cover up for the sleep I missed on workdays. I wondered whose horn was blaring that loud.   Funmi was already cleaning the house. She wore her beige baggy shorts and a loose grey polo shirt, her black air pod in her left ear. She danced to the song she was listening to as she cleaned. On days like this, it felt therapeutic just watching her; she had this firm strength that was so easy to see. I smiled lazily. Funmi was such a special gift of God to me.   I just lay there beaming in smiles until she went outside our apartment and shouted Jide. I jolted out of my thoughts, Jidenna was here as he told me yesterday. I had totally forgotten. It wasn't even 8 am yet and I wondered why he didn't wait till midday. I would hav...
Read more

Fears - Part 1

Image
  Three months after Temi asked me every day, “Have you considered coming with me to our monthly hangouts?”I conceded to her idea one Sunday evening over dinner.  The kitchen steamed in hot air from a boiling pot of chicken I got from Pa Chizo's Cold room along with Jani. Temi sat at the dining table reading from her tab. Whenever one of us cooked, the other sat nearby to show support.  “I'll go with you for this month's hangout, Yemi” She sat up, wide-eyed, a smirk on her face. I smiled. A wry smile and then turned to watch the boiling of the chicken lumps on the gas cooker for stew. The usual stew that makes Temi happy every week because she could easily boil white rice or tubers for work with the hope of stew in the freezer. The monthly hangout is held on a Saturday. The venue was at Soteria Gardens in Marina on Lagos Island, South West Nigeria.  Our house was a two-bedroom flat that sat on the hillside of Magodo on the Mainland and I suddenly had cold feet about ...
Read more

How Worthy? - Part 2

Image
Doctor George sat across the room on the foam-padded wooden chair in his office.  Two art murals hung diagonally beside each other on the wall above his head. Three textbooks sat on his table but my eyes caught a massive blue book themed The Physician.  Jidenna had booked me for an appointment yesterday. I sat deafened by the thick silence, waiting for Doctor George to speak but he sat bent over this desk scribbling notes in a purple journal. When he spoke, he looked me in the eye, his eyes held nothing. No promise, no assurance. “Following your family history closely, I have seen no trace of Vitiligo at all which is not abstract though.” He said Abstract. I didn't remember the meaning of the word but I nodded.  When I left his office, I memorised that he'd put me on phototherapy and had given me corticosteroids to even out my skin and stop the progression of Vitiligo on my skin.  I didn't flag down a bus outside the premises. I stood by the roadside even though Mam...
Read more